\n| I stand at the bedside, holding up an iPad so that my dying patient\u2019s family can say goodbye to their mother, their grandmother, their auntie.<\/p>\n There are about 11 people on the tiny screen ranging from about eight to 50 years old, all trying to keep their tears back as they talk about good memories, a few laughs managing to come through as they share their special moments with each other.<\/p>\n I reassure them that although her eyes are closed and she is not replying, she is gently squeezing my hand to show she can hear, and she is smiling faintly at the happy memories.<\/p>\n They talk for about 20 minutes. I can tell they’re not sure how to end the call. I gently ask the daughter if she’s OK. \u201cYes thank you\u201d she replies, \u201cI think we’ll go now\u201d. I tell her she can call back anytime, and they all say their goodbyes.<\/p>\n Two hours later, my patient\u2019s son rings, telling me how upset he is that he wasn’t able to join in the iPad conversation as he is isolating at home and can’t stay in the family home with everyone else.<\/p>\n I try to reassure him; I tell him that I am relaying all of the messages from him and his family to his dying mother, and that she is doing her best to let me know she can hear everyone\u2019s messages of love.<\/p>\n I offer to him the chance to have his own iPad conversation, so he can at least see his mother like the rest of the family did. His voice breaks as he declines. He thanks me for looking after his mum, and begins to cry as he hangs up the phone.<\/p>\n I have a little cry myself right there at the nurses station. The nurse in charge, who knows what I’ve been trying to do for my patient today, comes over and gives me a hug. 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